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John A. Gehrisch Reveals The JAG Formula for a Fulfilling, Happy, Long-Term, Loving Relationship in “the Most Important Relationship Book Ever Written”

Everything that a man, woman, or couple needs to know about maintaining and spicing up a relationship can find much-needed practical advice and invaluable wisdom in what readers have referred to as the “most important relationship book ever written.” The author, who had endured the pain of two failed marriages, felt compelled to study the attributes of his parents’ relationships and their personalities as well as other couples whose marriages have lasted fifty-plus years.

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“This book can help any kind of relationship. It doesn’t have to be a man and a woman but understanding the differences.” John A. Gehrisch

For John A. Gehrisch, there are two most important things that “we do in our life,” the first one of which is “how should we choose a life mate?” The author rued that there is never a course in grade school, middle school, junior high school, and even college that teaches the subject. “I took on the relationship part of how to choose a life mate in the first place,” said Gehrisch in an interview with ReadersMagnet, “because you know, we don’t have any training on that, except maybe our parents give us a little guidance.” Thus, he wrote the book “The Golf Pro Has Heart: Secrets of Couples Still in Love After 50 Years: A Private Look Behind the Curtain of the Professional Golf Tour.”

In “The Golf Pro Has Heart,” Gehrisch shares his insights and observations that offer a real beacon of hope and wisdom in navigating the complexities of lasting love. The author, who was chosen by Publishers Weekly and ReadersMagnet as one of the “Writers to Watch,” delves into the intricacies of relationships, providing readers from all walks of life with much-needed practical advice and invaluable wisdom for building and sustaining meaningful connections.

The author takes inspiration from his parents, to whom he dedicates his book to “setting the examples of honesty, integrity, respect for all deserving, faith in God, and faithfulness to and respect for each other.” He also turns to highly successful couples he had met in his life and seen interviewed on TV – couples who have been married for fifty years or more, in a fulfilling relationship, happy, still madly in love, and best friends.

Why did Gehrisch look to people who were happily married for fifty-plus years? In the ReadersMagnet interview, he said, “When I had a business problem that I wasn’t sure how to solve, I went to the experts that knew how to do it right. I thought why wouldn’t I do that with this book? Why wouldn’t I look at the people that have done it right, and those are the people that have been married for that long a time?”

In studying these couples, he discovered that they all have 18 common traits. As he sifted through each trait, he felt that he had already found the Holy Grail to happy, loving, long-term relationships. He inscribed these traits or ingredients or keys in the JAG (taken from the author’s initials) Formula, which is written as:

A Fulfilling, Happy, Loving, Long-Term Relationship = [2 Givers + God + Values + (Trust + Security) + Support + Friendship + Spouse’s Family + Affection + Lover (Intimacy) + Romance + Laughter + Understanding + Forgiveness + Attraction + Communication + [Commitment] – [Betrayal + Lies]

Gehrisch expands the JAG Formula in “Hole #15: JAG Formula for a Happy, Loving, Long-Term Relationship,” in which he explains the virtue of each trait/ingredient/key and how each one matters in the relationship.

Read more about John A. Gehrisch’s insights on the JAG Formula for a Happy, Loving, Long-Term Relationships and much more in “The Golf Pro Has Heart: Secrets of Couples Still in Love After 50 Years: A Private Look Behind the Curtain of the Professional Golf Tour” by John A. Gehrisch. The author also tucks in funny, interesting, and even touching stories that happened on the golf course in the “Golf Gimmes.” The book is available in paperback, hardcover, audio, and eBook on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.

“The Golf Pro Has Heart” has been making the rounds at different book events. The book will be displayed by the self-publishing and book marketing company ReadersMagnet at the 2024 Printers Row Lit Fest (PRLF). The book event will be held on September 7-8, 2024, at Printers Row Park, 620 S Dearborn St (Ida B Wells & Polk), Chicago, Illinois. Visit the ReadersMagnet to check out the book’s display.

To get more ideas on building a stronger, more loving relationship, please visit the author’s website:

“The Golf Pro Has Heart: Secrets of Couples Still in Love After 50 Years: A Private Look Behind the Curtain of the Professional Golf Tour”
Author: John A. Gehrisch
Genre: Self-help, Romance and Sports
Publisher: Quiet Thunder Publishing
Published Date: September 20, 2023

Author’s Biography

An electrical engineer by education who parlayed a successful sales and marketing career into owning a company that produced enough wire to wrap the world 13 times in one year. After selling the company that Warren Buffet now owns, he became a Tour Professional on the Professional golf circuit. But John A. Gehrisch is far from typical.

Golf remained his passion. As soon as he turned pro in 1999, he started playing on the mini-tours, finishing second several times prior to winning his first event on the Western States Tour in early 2000. He has played on and off on the Champions Tour (then the Senior Tour) and has been paid to compete in international professional tournaments as far away as the Azores and Morocco.

Not one to remain idle, he then became a co-partner in a commercial real estate development and management company. Also, President of BBJM Golf Ventures, the exclusive golf memorabilia producer since 2003, John has enjoyed golf since he got out of college. It was his Dad who dreamed of John becoming a tour golf professional.

Gehrisch later assisted in the direction of successful turnarounds of several struggling companies. He was honored to serve on the New Hampshire Governors Round Table and the U.S. Presidential Round Table.

Always a seeker of the Top Mentors for answers, he began the search for the secrets to Happy Loving Long Term Relationships from people who actually achieved it for over 50 years. These are the older couples who endear your heart through the love they clearly exude for each other. Why would anyone look anywhere else?

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